@Former-Member

I am saddened to hear that you have so much going on for you at the moment...

of course this would be the last thing that you need to hear...

this is exactly what I am trying to express..

we must not underestimate the impact of our words in relation to others on here...we do not know their stories...their hurt...

I understand you taking a break...I have done this several times myself....things have been overwhelming for me..I too have been hurt on here in the past...

there are times where I limited the threads that I responded too when I came back....I stayed in the background..basically liking (still hate that term)..then ventured to talk about totally different things on specific threads..where I felt safe...not judged..

please I implore you do not leave on this note...for the reason of feeling isolated and not enough..

I know that feeling only too well....my head goes to that place too and it is a horrid place...

take a break then come back ...you can check in on me at living with ourselves...you will find others on there who are on other threads that are of a softer nature...I do not want to name them as do not want to be seen a preferring people...that is not what I am saying at all.

I am feeling for you deeply as I have been there and want to let you know that you are experience a pattern of past thoughts from previous emotions...very real...

speak to your counsellor if you have one....speak to someone..

then visit me...I will be waiting and so will others....sending you a huge hug....a special cuddle from my teddy bear also