@Former-Member .... she didn't access the forum at all past that point of posting .... hasn't, at this stage, "looked back" to see what any of the responses were .... we know that much .... and if she doesn't want to be found, or suspects that emergency services would be sent to check on her, she would likely have turned off her phone and left the house.

It came across to me like a giant dummy-spit  .... like FMIL !! ... so I am hopeful she has just walked away from everything and is in a cool-down or soul-searching place, and will come back to some sort of picking up again, but even then, may be too embarrassed to return here ....

I would encourage everyone to keep dropping "we miss you and wish you to come back" messages into different threads, and wait to see ....

Hold the line everybody .... whatever is happening with Zoe, we still all need each other too, and are hurting ....

Gently, gently ... with ourselves and each other ..... ❤️