You’ve found them hard to understand because it’s been a challange. While I’ve validated you I haven’t played into how and things are and kept challenging you to see things in other perspectives.

Pinterest is great for goal boards.
For me having a goal still needs to be broken down. I’ll use your girl group as an example
Step one- join a girl group
Step 2- attend the first meeting
Step 3/ attend the second session

Then as it gets into it then steps can be like invite “friend” out.

Have a look at printest for goal boards or vision boards even