oh, am just guessing re a year, has been a while though @EternalFlower 

yes, still in home with cat. Guess thats an achievement these days with bills going up , govt relief getting removed.

Cat is fine somehow. He could have been here a year now, not sure either. I never got him desexed. I try to give him stuff for worms and fleas also help groom his coat which is getting really long again already after summer. he still disappears sometimes, but I dont go away to course for most of day once a fortnight anymore. he would use that to disappear for days. He was going for around a week twice, had given up on him but he came back. will swap to phone for a bit as have cat pics on there. easier to add them when on phone. thats good re new friends and new dr. must be hard with rents. I used to complain I should have got more inheritance than siblings who are all very very well off, well one, is only well off, ha ha. but at least I got something with what I ended up getting, while they took theirs purely out of Pride. no Need whatsoever.