Hi @Former-Member  and @avant-garde .  Pleased to meet you.  
My life experience has taught me that some days are just for breathing through ….. and that’s okay.

Things change, with time and with effort.  What can seem like treading water can be waiting out a change, and we don’t always know that is what is happening.  
Keep swimming, and float when you’re too tired to swim.  Wait for life changes and see what the new currents bring.

Best wishes for the 2025 tides.  You’re not in them alone.

I’m glad you found the forums ❣️