Hi @Shaz51 @TAB @Bimby2 @Meowmy @Gazza75  and all others here. Had an unexpected visitor today. A friend that had moved out of town a few years ago and rang to see if I was home because hse had a spare hour waiting for an appointment. Was good catching up with her. She does not know most of my struggles. I know she has her own after her daughter died in an accident a few years ago when a cupboard fell on her. 

Found out on the weekend that a friend died suddenly Friday night. Totally unexpected. I do not manage funerals well, but if it is local I will try to go. No word on when yet, as they have to do autopsies etc first. 

I have been feeling a little better in myself since taking the day out for me to get away on Friday. Was worth the pain and tiredness for the last few days.