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bloody hell i am still re-aligning my chakras since the cyclone winds over melbs earlier this week.  is that what a cyclone sounds like?  i am sleep deprived and not very focused.  But do I have something to share? why yes, yes I do.

Never Again

God I miss him

It's called pathocracy:

Toxic people, (narcs, psychopaths) become more unhinged as time goes on.  Even in politics.  They always de-compensate which means they return back to their baseline abusive state.  (To "compensate" means they behave themselves for a short while to get approval from people/systems.  Once they have power the veneer of civility flies away and you see their true intentions)  They always get found out as they overplay their hand:

And the decay of workplaces, churches, families etc etc...

People think recovery is painless, you have to work through those negative emotions to come out the other side.

This reminds me of abuse.  The nervous system is similar.  It is not like a muscle.  If you expose yourself to abuse, it does so much damage and disregulation, you spend decades trying to recover and you are never quite the same.  Just like your body has to recover after an infection, your nervous system has to recover from abuse.  Do not recommend.  Hardship/abuse does NOT build character goddamit.  You have to rebuild yourself after the damage.  I hate those a$$holes who say that as it is not true.