@Former-Member Yes, you do deserve a pat on the back for what you are doing. No small ask. It shows the kind of person you are.

I tried with my family, I ran out of strength. I think they are caught up in their own survival rituals. The survival of the fittest, I wasn't fit enough. I wish them no harm, but refuse to continue to be harmed. Toxic families leave their scars, make or break.

The brother I am in contact with has a soft heart which he hides well. Once you get past the rough exterior he's just another suffering from the abuseive past.

I hope you find some time for you in you caring roll.💜💕💜