Sorry @Former-Member - I drifted off to sleep. Not messing with you at all. The point I was trying to make is that people are generally happy to help. It’s the nice part of human nature to do so and has benefits for the person helping as well as the person who is helped.

 I was married to a narcissist for far too many years and he was completely all about himself. I can tell that you are a very kind and generous person who puts others first. Apologies if my meaning was misinterpreted.