Honestly @Hopeandlove , I'm sure both @Former-Member and I and others also are not humans who have not been through struggles. That's the beaut of this place. We've all had our own struggles and our own journeys. Yet on our journey, there have been people who have shown us compassion even when we didn't deserve it.

From my perspective, I need to pay it forward. And not because I have to, but because I really want to. 

We care about you @Hopeandlove . We may not be able to 'solve' your problems, but we can at least prove to you that you are not alone. 

Hugs.