I remember you saying that the uni stuff would provide you with some distraction and sense of purpose @Determined. It may seem overwhelming at the moment but believe that things will get better.

With your Darling safely in hospital, that may free up some time for you to do those other things. There is always the chance that you may feel resentful and regretful that you had to drop back or out of those commitments.

Of course you will have to weigh up the pros and cons. I just know that you blitzed it last semester in spite of everything and that was a good feeling,