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01-06-2016 10:40 PM
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Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
Mental health challenges in parenthood: Speaking the unspeakable
Parenting is challenging. Change can happen in every area of wellbeing: physical, emotional and social, and the impact on daily functioning can be huge. Knowing when and how to speak up about the difficulties of parenting is complex. There are often expectations that define parenthood as something to be enjoyed. But sometimes these expectations don't match reality. Join us this Topic Tuesday with our special guests from PANDA to talk about how to speak the unspeakable.
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21-06-2016 09:04 AM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
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21-06-2016 09:05 AM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
I will make an effort to get to this forum tonight
My subject is that parenthood does not stop as our children get older - my daughter is 44 and I am sure does not realise that I am still activity parenting even though it is in a "hands off" mode.
Her brother ended his troubled life when he was 16 and she was 14 - and she never has wanted to talk about it - never has talked about it - doesn't want to talk about him -
But her resentment is so obvious I could take a photo of it - and I just let her alone
But I feel her attitude - and I am letting her alone for weeks at a time - I am not welcome at birthdays etc - even Christmas is difficult - I know she has her own life - and I certainly have mine
So - my question - seeing as I am a parent - parenting continues - and yet it is hard to know how to parent someone in their 40s with so much underlying tension
Decadian
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21-06-2016 06:14 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
Hello @Decadian…you are so right. We never stop being a parent. It doesn’t matter how old our children are we still worry about them. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. It sounds as though your son’s death was the beginning of your daughter emotionally slipping away from you. It is really tricky knowing how to help someone who is not wanting or seeking help.
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21-06-2016 07:02 PM - edited 21-06-2016 07:03 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
Welcome to tonight's Topic Tuesday on “Speaking the unspeakable” with special guests, Jenni (@PANDA) and Suzanne (@Squirrel), from Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Australia (PANDA).
Thank you for RSVP-ing @Shaz51, @Sanefan, @Decadian, @Snare183, @mrkotter, @Former-Member and @Catzpaw. I hope you could join us 🙂 And thank you for your questions @Sanefan and @Decadian.
At any stage of parenting, speaking out about how you're really feeling as a parent can sometimes feel like “speaking the unspeakable”. Tonight we encourage you to share your experiences, current or past, both the challenges and the things that have helped overcome them. Jenni and Suzanne will be here to share some of their insights as professionals in the field of perinatal depression and anxiety so if you have any questions, please ask away.
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
It's a shame that the support we're after isn't always there. I'm wondering if other members have had different or similar experiences to @Sanefan when they've reached out to friends and family?
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Mental health challenges in parenthood // Tues. 21 June, 7pm AEST
Congratulations @ssc is this your first child? It is great that you have sought help and have commenced treatment before bub is here. Brave of you to put your hand up and seek the help you need!