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16 Dec 2024 10:45 PM
16 Dec 2024 10:45 PM
Game on, @Oaktree . I'll concentrate on the kitchen too.
16 Dec 2024 10:46 PM
16 Dec 2024 10:46 PM
16 Dec 2024 10:48 PM
17 Dec 2024 12:45 AM
17 Dec 2024 12:45 AM
Sounds serious @Dimity Hope you come up with a Plan. Maybe it involves getting help ,?
17 Dec 2024 01:28 AM
17 Dec 2024 01:28 AM
I have a Christmas lunch tomorrow so was worried I wouldn’t get my agreed job done. So I went ahead and did it tonight. The bench is a bit wet but I am going to just let it dry by itself as I am not in a hurry to use it.
17 Dec 2024 07:31 AM
17 Dec 2024 07:31 AM
One day at a time @Dimity
Make a list and cross them off as you go xx
When is your surgery? And I hope you have some help to help you
17 Dec 2024 08:10 AM
17 Dec 2024 08:10 AM
@Dimity 👏🏼 YAY look at you go❣️ I sincerely hope your surgery goes smoothly.
I cannot paint the interior of an A-Frame in 40*degree heat, build furniture, make GP appointment, respond to Centrelink and my lawyer’s requests.
My physical, emotional and mental health must come first.
17 Dec 2024 09:54 AM
17 Dec 2024 09:54 AM
A+ for Achievement @Oaktree !!! Totally clear and clean! I haven't started yet but there'll still be stuff as I can't fit it all in the cupboards. Since doctors orders to cut back tea and coffee drinking I have too many varieties of teabags to get through.
@Shaz51 @TAB I'm mulling what help would look like. I had an aged care assessment a couple of weeks ago but don't expect much if anything, and there's always a long wait. I went through an online platform to get help when I had my scary eye surgery coming up. This op is the first week of February so with the holiday season there's not much time to line up help preparing.
17 Dec 2024 09:58 AM
17 Dec 2024 09:58 AM
you could still make enquiries ? @Dimity do you have a contact for accessing things ?
Hope it goes okay anyway
17 Dec 2024 10:13 AM
17 Dec 2024 10:13 AM
Hugs @Glisten I can understand the overwhelm. One thing at a time, everything in its season and it's definitely not the season for painting.
Furniture sounds like a longterm project and maybe a respite from other hard slog since you enjoy it so much.
Booking Gp would be a priority to stay on top of physical and mental health - there might be more of a wait over the next few weeks so get in early.
Centrelink and lawyer sound daunting so pace yourself. Are they time-critical?
I need to break down my own tasks too but it's hard to get my head around what needs to be done. Mostly decluttering and doing as much heavy work as I can.
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