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04-10-2020 07:45 PM
04-10-2020 07:45 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
When Mr Darcy was battling the side effects of his meds we became intentional about serving sizes and adequate veg/ fibre/ water/ healthy options which resulted in quite a few health benefits - but as you say he has got to want to do this.
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04-10-2020 07:50 PM
04-10-2020 07:50 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
thank you my @Emelia8
decide wher to put it xxxx
very true @Former-Member , i am decreasing the amount but it is what he will have in between and after dinner
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05-10-2020 05:24 PM
05-10-2020 05:24 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hey @Shaz51 just going through my notifications and went looking for your post on not sure what to do - it looks like a whole thread has been deleted. I'm very sorry to hear about those awful memories coming up for you. I know first-hand how hard that can be to deal with. Hope you are having a peaceful afternoon today and getting some you time. @Emelia8 and @BlueBay I hope you're ok now too. If any of you wants to chat or debrief come find me on the A long rave thread, or anywhere else. I'll be here for an hour or so. Take care and be kind to yourselves xoxo
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05-10-2020 05:40 PM - edited 05-10-2020 05:42 PM
05-10-2020 05:40 PM - edited 05-10-2020 05:42 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
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05-10-2020 05:57 PM
05-10-2020 05:57 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
I got the email about why it was deleted, but I have not fixed it yet and reposted
@eth I was replying and sharing about what happened with being mentally and emotionally abused by my father
And then a surprised situation with my uncle which I could not believe it happened
It is in answering @Emelia8 , and @BlueBay experiences in not feeling good
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06-10-2020 09:08 AM
06-10-2020 09:08 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Good morning @Shaz51 yes I saw your post in my notifications but then it didn't come up when I clicked on it so I knew it had been deleted. In this case I do think it could have been left up, not sure what guideline you breached. I really feel for what you've been through. Hoping having those memories come up has not left you distressed and re-living those moments. Whatever you can do to ground yourself in the present would be a good idea. Love you mate, xoxo
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13-10-2020 06:28 PM
13-10-2020 06:28 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hello @Malinka , @dizzyroundabout , @Raoh72 , @KarenSD , @xtine , @Toki , @Missmum87 , @Grasshopper3
sending you all tender hugs and letting you know you are not alone
@eth, @Emelia8 , @Former-Member , @Schitzo , @Anastasia
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14-10-2020 06:55 PM
14-10-2020 06:55 PM
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DAMMM if I do and DAMMed if I don't --- arrgggggg
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14-10-2020 07:42 PM
14-10-2020 07:42 PM
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@Shaz51 talk to me ... Please.
I have read this same post in 5 different threads now. Clearly you are distressed. Tell me whats wrong. @Former-Member
Emelia
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14-10-2020 07:53 PM
14-10-2020 07:53 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
hi @Shaz51
It sounds like you may be in some trouble this evening Shaz. Feeling damned can be a terrible burden for anyone to bear. I am concered that you might not be safe. Are you okay?
Please reach out for help off the forums if you need to get supported.
take care
Whitehawk