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27-10-2016 09:22 PM
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27-10-2016 09:31 PM
27-10-2016 09:31 PM
Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
No way never. I never want these guys ever ever again. No. I hate them so much. They took my childhood and innocence away. No.
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27-10-2016 09:34 PM
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Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
Hi @PeppiPatty
How are you?
Sometimes people do this through imagery with their therapists, it can be very powerful!
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27-10-2016 09:55 PM
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Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
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27-10-2016 09:57 PM
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Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
A very strong reaction @BlueBay. It's good that you know yourself and can make that choice to never see them again. As we know, people recover in different ways, and it sounds like for you, making that decision is a powerful way to move on with your life.
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27-10-2016 10:07 PM
27-10-2016 10:07 PM
Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
Sometimes "empty chair" work can help release some of the anger at a past abuser .. abusing the therapist is never going to help .. and makes their job tougher. But using the technique of imagining the abuse in the chair ... and being safe and supported by therapist we are able to re-author our story.
W may depth and learn to form an inner shield and maybe a mental way to "contain" the past abuse .. not clinging to it .. letting it go .. but when we remember it we have processed it in a way that we have regained the power that was taken by the initial experience.
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27-10-2016 10:11 PM
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Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
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28-10-2016 05:48 AM
28-10-2016 05:48 AM
Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
@PeppiPatty I didn't mean to sound so harsh. I know you only gave a suggestion I'm sorry if I came across too strong. Thanks for your suggestion.
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28-10-2016 05:53 AM
28-10-2016 05:53 AM
Re: automatic shutdown or disassociation
When someone you trust takes that away and dies the most horrible things to s little girl I can never forget.
It hurts so much the pain is too raw. My heart aches for the little girl in me. 😥
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28-10-2016 05:55 AM
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