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02-10-2020 02:46 PM
02-10-2020 02:46 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
I hear you @Former-Member and have read your messages here, but can't reply here. Want to help you.
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02-10-2020 04:46 PM
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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
You are so sweet @Former-Member. My thoughts are very jumpled up and emotions are all over the place. I honestly would not know where to start to unravel anything. Such a mess. I was venting on here as words kept coming to the surface of my thoughts and heart. I am not sure about the tagging.
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03-10-2020 05:44 PM
03-10-2020 05:44 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
I've been used abused and mistreated by an old psychologist
I thought he was nice and he liked me
he treated me like a friend
brother/sister relationship
he took advantage of my vulnerability
im sngry
I hate him
now I don't trust anyone
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03-10-2020 05:51 PM
03-10-2020 05:51 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
I want to go home but am scared of how I will cope. Being in here means I don't have to deal with some things, but when I go home I will have to deal with them all. How can I do that when I am not sure how to deal with all the issues waiting for me. So much pressure and so little comfort. I just keep sinking further and further down the hole, to where there is only darkness.
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03-10-2020 06:47 PM
03-10-2020 06:47 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
The atmosphere of this house is strained. It makes me feel even sader then I already do. I feel so stuck. In my heart I think I just have to forgive him again. Reason is the unforgiveness or holding a grudge towards him is making me feel even more awful. I can feel the bitterness inside me. And I hate that too. I cannot do it Father, I am so tired of him hurting me. Tears now.. Can't do it. Please help me. So weary of this year after year.
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03-10-2020 06:47 PM
03-10-2020 06:47 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
Hi @Snowie
It sounds like you are facing a big challenge in going home Snowie. Good on you for letting it out here. I hope that posting about your sinking has helped you do what the thread is for; "getting it out and walking away." I am sorry to post on this no response thread but I just want to send you a cheerio and check that you are okay this evening.
Thinking of you,
Whitehawk
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03-10-2020 06:59 PM
03-10-2020 06:59 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
Hi @Former-Member
I know this is a non response thread but I am concerned to read Maggie that you are being hurt and are wanting help. It is great that you have been able to get it out here but I am worried that you may not be safe this evening. You will not be able to get help in a crisis here on the forums so please reach out for help off the forums if you need it.
Please take care and look after yourself.
regards
Whitehawk
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03-10-2020 07:05 PM
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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
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03-10-2020 07:31 PM
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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
Thankyou @Whitehawk
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03-10-2020 07:39 PM
03-10-2020 07:39 PM
Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please
Hi @BlueBay
That is a powerful post you have shared today. I hope that getting it out has allowed you to walk away as the thread intends. Trust can be such a challenge for us after abuse and mistreatment BlueBay. I do hope that sometimes you have the courage and strength to trust others a little. Sharing your vulnerability here is indeed a sign of your courage and strength I reckon.
Go well this evening
Whitehawk