not coping

[outlander]

aww give him scratches for me @Zoe7 Is Cat in her bed?
Do you have something specific you want to watch?
We are watching the newer version of The Jungle Book on tv atm.

[outlander]

how are you going tonight? @Sans911

[Zoe7]

No Cat is asking for her biscuits so should give them to her @outlander Watching Death in Paradise but it is one I have already seen - cannot remember how it ends though so happy to watch it again.

[Sans911]

I'm OK @outlander - quite tired but my mood is a little better.

[outlander]

oh I haven't seen that @Zoe7 might have to watch it sometime

im glad to hear @Sans911 and its great your zoom baking meeting went really well too.



ill be back soon, we have WW3 happening here again. getting very sick of it. Wish I could just up and move away from everything for a while. 🥴😣

[Zoe7]

This might be a question you cannot answer @outlander but what is stopping you from just getting up and leaving for a while?

[outlander]

I cant afford a house on my own plus the added expenses, pop needs a carer, all of my life even though its not ideal is here where I am @Zoe7

[Zoe7]

I meant just for a night or 2 @outlander A little respite for yourself. Let others look after your pop - it might make them realise just how much yiu do and what pressure you are constantly under ...just a thought but one worth considering.

[outlander]

oh @Zoe7 as much as id love to I literally have no where to go and right now I cant afford to stay in a hotel not when I know I may have some large expenses coming up.
the carers respite only works its urgent ie if I was to end up in hospital and they set it up or its planned ahead

[Zoe7]

Yeah the expense of a hotel is too much right now @outlander I wasn't however talking about carer's respite but your mother looking after him. I can already hear you saying she wouldn't or that she has other things to do - but you do so much of her work and about time she took some responsibility for ALL her children and as a result giving you a break from your pop.