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That's good to hear that it wasn't busy @Fluttershy1 

 

As for your family, it sounds like there's still a lot to work out. 

I hope you can speak to a professional about managing what comes up in your relationship between family members. As with all relationships, there's needs to be a balance of give-take. A mutual understanding and agreement.

 

As I've said before, we can't change people, but we can change ourselves.

 

I hope you'll be able to find a functional balance to live by. 

Cheers,

BPDSurvivor

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Hi @Fluttershy1 , yes, I'm in Melbourne too and the wind yesterday was scary! Sorry you lost power...have you got it back yet?

 

Hoping you're feeling a bit better today...

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@NatureLover - we got power back, lots of trees fell, it was scary for sure. Went shopping last night and it was pretty quiet so that was nice.

 

 

@BPDSurvivor - you can't change people, but my family are not willing to take advice that people have given them, they have so much stigma around MH. 

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@NatureLover @BPDSurvivor @MDT @Judi9877 @Snowie @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Bunniekins @Eve7 @Zoe7 @frog @jem80  @@pinemushroom  - 

 

Today is just a mess, I feel like none of my family care about me they just make me feel bad and judge me. When I ask something sometimes they won't respond, they yell at me for no reason which upsets me more and triggers me. 

my best friend is hanging out with my ex that is abusive. I am just over everything at the moment I just feel more and more stressed. I've been crying and yeah. 

Am safe

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@Fluttershy1 💜💜

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Thanks @Snowie, feeling really upset and overwhelmed 

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I'm sorry to hear you are feeling that way @Fluttershy1 

Hoping you can find something that helps you even a little.

💗💗

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Can you sit and chat @Snowie 

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Have to take D to work soon but will be around for a bit in between that @Fluttershy1 

Have you got many plans for the weekend?

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Not really @Snowie- just taking it day by day..