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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Hi @Shaz51 

 

This is a big deal - I guess you have known that this time would come - your mother is very frail and having joint replacement surgery could sap her self-confidence

 

Your health has been stressed through all of this and it would be easier for you to have your mother having 24/7 care - and this isn't selfish at all if your mother is ready to go into to supported care

 

Tough decisions though - and you think your mother might be developing dementia and this would be tougher to work through - but if she is ready to go into care - then she is ready - and the time you spend with her will be quality care

 

All the best from your second Mum

 

Dec

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

hello my wonderful friends @Former-Member , @Jacques 

and my second mum @Owlunar 

we have a big meeting in the morning , fingers crossed and hoping everything will work out for thr best

asked my aunty ( mum`s sister ) to be there with us

Mum was good today , tomorrow is another day xx

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Will be thinking of you @Shaz51 

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thinking of you @Shaz51  with all you have going on. 

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thank you @Determined , @Former-Member 

sending you hugs and hope you are ok and stay strong xoxo

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

I wish your family the best @Shaz51  - this is not an easy time for a family

 

I know you will all have your mother's best interests at heart - she has been battling for a long time and now perhaps really does need more help that you can give her - but still somehow inside herself doesn't want to admit it

 

And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do

 

Sending my best thoughts

 

Dec

 

 

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

@Shaz51 

Been thinking of you today.

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And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do --- very true my amazing second mum @Owlunar 

this afternoon was to reasurring  my darling Mr shaz -- my poor darling , soo much going on and to tell him that everything is ok is hard

but with my love , mr shaz is right again now xoxo

 we are looking forward to a week holiday in May which will be what  we need xxx

meeting went well this morning @Former-Member , things are under way for mum to go home with help including me and my aunty xxx

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

@Shaz51 

Please don't ever underestimate what a beautiful person you are.

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mr shaz has the music up very loud tonight @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Jacques , @Sophie1

having leftover pizza for dinner

found out some secrets from my cousin today about my mum , which I kinda knew but now i know

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