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Not Coping

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Tell him how you feel @Birdofparadise8 it's ok for you to want to feel safe and comfortable 

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Thank you @Blackbird11 

Would it be okay to tell Uncle I wanted to do something just us two or not? 

Enjoy the sunshine! 

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Perfectly ok @Birdofparadise8 it's ok to ask that 💚

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Yeah, okay, I'll see what he says. I know he is busy and all so I'm not sure if we will get to do that or not, but all I can do is let him know how I feel and that I wanted to just talk to him @Blackbird11 

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Have you been outside yet @Blackbird11?

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I told my uncle, but he said he was busy anyway and that it would be fun the quiz night. He was hoping to catch up with just us as well, but his friend from America has just decided to come, so we couldn't do anything on Sunday @Blackbird11 

It's a bit disappointing, but oh well. I need to get over myself. 

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Is there any chance of another opportunity soon? @Birdofparadise8 

It would be great to catch up in near future and have that quality time?

 

You are in his thoughts and it sounds as though he wants to spend time with you

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Yes, inbetween showers @Birdofparadise8 

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This is what he said 

Thanks for understanding, and I hear you, I was looking forward to catching up with you too, and if it wasn't for my friend being from overseas, we would have. He's also a notorious late planner, which is why I didn't know details sooner.

I'm also busy the following weekend, so I thought that catching up midweek was a good way to spend some time together. It's something a little different and hopefully a little fun.

So it doesn't look like it. 

I said 'Yeah, that’s okay. Maybe another time we can do something just us'. 

No reply yet. I doubt we will be able to do anything the following weekend, so it won't be until like the 25th so that's a while away @Blackbird11 

Is it raining?

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I'm not seeing my psych tomorrow; I must wait until Thursday. I wanted a more extended session, and my appointment is at 12:30. I know he doesn't have anyone else after me, so it must be on Thursday. What's one more day when I've been desperate to see him @Blackbird11

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