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25 Mar 2025 05:31 PM
25 Mar 2025 05:31 PM
I had a few bad experiences and bad choice of dentists. So avoided going until I had to. Had extras last 10 years but too late @StuF
25 Mar 2025 06:06 PM
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25 Mar 2025 06:53 PM
25 Mar 2025 06:53 PM
@Abner imagine someone like Rachmaninoff and not being confident about his obvious gift! im glad you enjoined the MM skit she was another soul who was not confident about her talents.
25 Mar 2025 06:58 PM
25 Mar 2025 06:58 PM
@TAB hey tabby, feel so much better now cousin is gone. Nice and peaceful at home. Hope you're okay
25 Mar 2025 07:18 PM
25 Mar 2025 07:18 PM
Exactly @greenpea a lot of great artists aren't confident of their ability, and of those who appear confident it's often a type of bluff.
In music we're taught if you make a mistake while playing don't say sorry, or go back over it, just keep going, your audience is there to have a lovely time, not a note perfect time. So we get used to making mistakes and not saying sorry.
Unfortunately some people then carry that into life when they hurt others, even deliberately, and most of them aren't musicians or performing artists, they just don't like examining themselves.
In music the principle is it must be a beautiful experience, not a perfect one. Whatever music you like, if it gives you a wonderful and meaningful experience it's great music, whether it's "The Wheels on the Bus" or Vaughan-Williams' "Scream from the Apocalypse".
25 Mar 2025 07:29 PM
25 Mar 2025 07:29 PM
that's Life , hey @Meowmy re cousin. was having nap here
25 Mar 2025 07:32 PM
25 Mar 2025 07:32 PM
I had marvelous, hilarious experience once with a Marty Feldman comic sketch called "Opera without Music". It absolutely took the mickey out of opera ferociously, it was wonderful! It's probably online, a lot of Feldman's sketches are, just look up Marty Feldman Opera without Music, and the two Ronnies used to send up classical music shamelessly, and there's that very famous Spike Milligan sketch about virtuoso pianists...and they're all done with very famous miusic and opera. Have a look at them @greenpea.
25 Mar 2025 07:37 PM
25 Mar 2025 07:37 PM
@TAB hey tabby, its slowly getting dark here. Slowly settling into the night. Cousin was very nosy and loud. Sick of it very quickly. It dragged on for so long ha. Had some quick dinner already. Hope you're okay
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