Looking after ourselves
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10-02-2019 03:30 PM
10-02-2019 03:30 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
thinking of you today @Determined
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11-02-2019 12:21 AM
11-02-2019 12:21 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Quick pop in before I try and get some sleep as I may be 'off the grid' for a bit.
Mum in law is not in a good way and not expected to be with us much longer. If she is still with us by morning I will be surprised.
S1 is inconsolable. Darling is hanging on by a thread. She was avoiding S1 as she cant cope or help him. Dad inlaw is hanging on by a thread also. Everyone closest to me is falling apart and nothing I can do to help them except hold them. I am so blessed to have my mum here propping me up.
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11-02-2019 12:59 AM
11-02-2019 12:59 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Thinking of you too @Determined 💕
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11-02-2019 07:11 AM
11-02-2019 07:11 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
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11-02-2019 08:00 AM
11-02-2019 08:00 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Lots of hugs and prayers from here @Determined .
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11-02-2019 11:34 AM
11-02-2019 11:34 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
@Determined Thinking of you in this truly heart wrenching time - be gentle with yourself and keep breathing
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12-02-2019 01:09 AM
12-02-2019 01:09 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Mum in law passed away peacefully this afternoon. Feeling gutted. She has been my rock through so much. I never knew how to tell her how much I appreciated that. (And in saying that I take nothing away from the amazing support my own mum has given me. They both have their own very special strengths).
I really need to sleep so I can be rested to face tomorrow but sleep just won't come. Not looking forward to tomorrow. Leaning on the promise of the words to the song I shared on Christian chat thread at the moment.
If I am not around I will be ok. We have good support around us. Will try to pop in where I can just to see some friendly faces.
Thinking of all my special friends in your individual travels but dont have the strength to check in and comment on other threads. Thinking of you all though ❤
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12-02-2019 06:47 AM
12-02-2019 06:47 AM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
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12-02-2019 02:36 PM
12-02-2019 02:36 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
💜 @Determined ......
Thinking of you, and your darling, and wonderful kids. So glad your MIL was a beautiful person who cherished you all ......
Hugs ❣️
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12-02-2019 05:32 PM
12-02-2019 05:32 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Heaps of love to you and your family @Determined . Thanks for keeping the rest of us in mind too, but look after yourself first.